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always_horny
01-10-2003, 10:01 PM
Just wondering how many guys/gals are open enough to explore their 'other sides'. I know that for many years, I've enjoy anal stimulation, even penetration (with fingers or even dildos), but have never been with another guy. I'm extremely masculine, which makes this kinda funny, but also open-minded and have this 'fem' side... not outwardly, but more 'internally', I guess, that I find myself often wondering what it'd be like to be with another guy. Of course, it'd have to be someone pretty 'fem' 'cause I don't like masculine. Its sorta like being in touch with my 'feminine' side, I guess.

Just wondering how many others experience similar things.

I know Lorelei is bisexual and so is her boyfriend, and they live in MI where I do... maybe her boyfriend would be willing to come over and give me a good pounding until hot sticky climax ;)

Haha =P

Anyone else experience anything similar in any ways? Any sort of exploration/experimentation, either alone or with another 'cause of certain feelings?

Oh yes, and I am new here... HI! =)

incitatus
01-10-2003, 10:58 PM
Welcome A_H!
My curiosity in that realm only went so far...
I've only given it a couple of thoughts in my whole life -didn't do much for me.

But, hey, I guess that's what experimentation is all about.

Have fun!

always_horny
01-10-2003, 11:02 PM
Thanks for the welcome! :D

Yeah, I mean I'm straight, but I guess with bi-tendencies. Would REALLY have to be the right person though. Oh yeah, and this goes for women too ;)

Casperr
01-11-2003, 04:42 AM
Welcome to Pixies, always_horny!

I'm bisexual, but I've never actually done anything with a guy - more through lack of opportunity than anything else. I'm willing to take it further and experiment with a guy, just a matter of finding a guy I feel comfortable experimenting with. I am equally turned on by the thought of a thick hard cock as I am by the thought of a delicious juicy pussy - on a purely physical scale it doesn't really worry me.
Emotionally, however, I'm less certain - I can't see myself having a relationship with a guy, or at least not yet. No specific reason for this, it's just how I feel.

Having said that, I'm completely open to the possibility of a guy sweeping me off my feet! If it happens, it happens - best just to enjoy it!

Once again, welcome to Pixies - hope you have a great time here!

CasperTG

Peacelul
01-11-2003, 05:02 AM
I would love to try cock but only as a purely sexual exercise with no emtional attachments. Hope to explore that side of things in the future, but I am in no rush.

GermanSteve
01-11-2003, 07:36 AM
Sorry, but I´m 99.95% straight. Thinking about the few experiences that I´ve had with homosexuals make me mainly shudder.

Lilith
01-11-2003, 09:15 AM
Hi always_horny! Welcome!!!

blackdragon2001
01-11-2003, 02:47 PM
I'm straight but the thought of sucking on a hard cock does turn me on... ;) havent tried it yet tho

Doomsday
01-11-2003, 03:06 PM
Everyone thinks about it eventually.. but I am not like that really.... because of a memory or dream or thought or whatever it is.... its jumbled... and from when I was little and I don't know and don't want to know... its just something I am not gonna do.... I am afraid of whatever I have locked from myself... because if its bad enough I have to lock it away in the recess of my mind I don't think I want to know... I just hope I am wrong and its not what I think it is or if its as bad as I think it is... :-/....

always_horny
01-11-2003, 05:05 PM
I would love to try cock but only as a purely sexual exercise with no emtional attachments.

Me too... just how I feel... just for fun ;)

I'm straight but the thought of sucking on a hard cock does turn me on... havent tried it yet tho

Yeah, I know the feeling ;)
Same here.

Bobs mind
02-23-2005, 04:37 PM
I know what you mean I had a few gay things happen when I was younger
and did suck cock one time .But it's been so long I can't really remember.
and I'm thinking about doing it again but I just can't see myself doing a stright
guy.But I have been looking at some transexauls and I think I could maybe get
into doing one of them.

Action_Jay
02-24-2005, 01:29 AM
I don't know if I'd be comfortable doing it personally, though I have done some fun things in the cyber-realm. I do believe that it is natural to be bi-curious now and then. I'd persue it just for the sake of pissing off zealots like the Traditional Values Coalition so seem to think gayness is a head-disease.

JustSomeGuy
02-24-2005, 02:02 AM
Ahhh...you aren't alone!

I am not attracted to men in any way. I don't find the thought of kissing a man sexy or desireable in ANY way.

Sucking a cock, him sucking me, maybe more (anal fucking)? Hell yeah - just typing this is getting me hard!!!

Will it ever happen?

I dunno. I hope so.

Slipzy
02-24-2005, 12:34 PM
Hi!

You mentioned about having an internal "feminine side". I think all people have some opposite gender feelings and desires to some degree and some more than others.

Some men are totally turned off at the thought of kising another man and being emtionally involved but get turned on at the thought of just having sex with another man.

In my case, I'm a bi femme crossdresser and I've had sex with men lots fo times. I love giving blow jobs and getting f##ked in my rear (I like that a lot!) I also love sex with women.

I discovered my "feminine side" long ago, and dressing like a woman (compete with makeup, jewelry, the works!), helps to bring that out.

I love being the way I am, even though it has presented problems on occasion. The crossdressing thing might not be your cup of tea, but I mention it as an example.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you do have these desires to explore sex with another man, go for it. Otherwise you'll never know if it's for you or not. If you enjoy it, a whole new sexual world can open up, and if you don't, then you'll know that, too. Either way, nothing lost and perhaps somehting to be gained!

Just be careful, safe and discreet, and be very sure that the guy you're experimenting with is the same in return.

Have fun and good luck!

Feel free to email me if you have any questions.

Hugs,

Slipzy

LixyChick
02-24-2005, 08:44 PM
It's great to see this thread revived...and to especially read the thoughts of our Pixies who are more in touch with their feminine side!

TY for the *bump* Bobs mind!

Slipzy suggested...and I just wanted to reiterate...be safe (condoms) and be careful! It's a curious world and we are all in a hurry. Just never forget that a single moment can interject on a lifetime!

We only go around once guys! Make it a safe and pleasurable trip!

*hugs*

MinnesotaGuy
03-06-2005, 02:15 AM
I'm extremely interested in exploring the gay side of myself too, I'm 21 and for about 2 or 3 years I've been trying to find the perfect opportunity to try it, still no success unfortunately.

denny
03-06-2005, 03:53 AM
Not likely here! I am revulsed to an extent by homosexuality. Don't misunderstand, to each their own, just not for me.

onedognight
03-07-2005, 02:07 PM
I'm straight but the thought of sucking on a hard cock does turn me on... ;) havent tried it yet tho
i'am straight also but have sucked a hard cock a couple of times its not bad :nopics:

onedognight
03-07-2005, 02:13 PM
well i have sucked a cock a couple of times and its good,fun and a turn on but i still want my woman,no kissing with a guy just sucking and when its over its over,and i have to be horney or it just don't happen

MinnesotaGuy
03-21-2005, 03:39 AM
I'm extremely interested in exploring the gay side of myself too, I'm 21 and for about 2 or 3 years I've been trying to find the perfect opportunity to try it, still no success unfortunately.


Update, I met a guy and we gave each other handjobs, he wasn't my type so nothing more happened, I'm still interested in trying more, but not with that guy unfortunately.

Wildeye
03-21-2005, 06:29 PM
Bi?

I am bi, i love women - absolutely adore looking and sex with girls. I'm so into my s/o wearing sexy panties and flashing her beautiful tits, never find myself looking at guys in the street, but I do have a bi side.

i have been with 4 guys, only done anal once - me taking it, it was good no pain. But I'm more into oral - love sucking and worshipping cock and feeling a cock shoot in my mouth, but here is the most important bit - i have gotta like the guy, not love, but like his sense of humour, attitude and feel well relaxed.

All the guys I like are masculine but not beer bellies and are not into camp or fem, just into cock.

But as i said I love girls too, love the feminie stuff, smiles, coy looks, all of the amazing clothes and woman's viewpoint on the world.