Am I small?

[Zonetime32]

I measured my penis today and it JUST makes 5 inches. I am pretty sure that is small but its hard to judge from those damn porn flicks. I am shy around girls because of this, I am worried that if I get to close to a girl and end up having sex she will see how small i really am. Should I be worried?


Also, where do I start to get the proper measurement?

[dm383]

I know you can see huge dicks on porn films, and a lot of women say they prefer "big" ones, but I'm "only" 6½ inches myself, and never had any complaints! (Measured along the top, from the pubic bone... not sure if that's "right" or not!!)

IMO, you've no need to worry... I'm a firm believer in the old saying, "It's not so much what you've got, it's what you DO with it!"

Any ladies disagree? I'd like to know too!!....

DM

[BlondeCurlGirl]

I agree DM, it's what you do with it, not how big it is. I am taking a Sociology of Gender course right now, and just cannot believe how many men are preoccupied with size, when really not that many women have concerns about it, according to the research!

[Lilith]

You will find many threads here regarding penis size if you do a search.

I think the overwhelming response by women has been that it's the character of the man more than the size of his meat that makes the difference in whether a man is a good lover or not.

[celticangel]

Its what u do with it that counts--------but even that doesn't mater that much if u are a conciderate, attentive lover---------"more than one way to skin a cat!" as they say!!!!

[Sharni]

Quality is highly sort after more than quantity

[Zonetime32]

Well, thats good to hear.

But literarly, am I "small" in size. I mean, whats the average penis size anyway?

[Sharni]

5-6 inches is normal that i'm aware of....

But why worry...ya can't change it....ya just gotta make do with what you were given...

Confidence in penis size is more attractive to me...

[Zonetime32]

Well, I CAN change it with those pills they sell. But I don't mind my size and I hope my girl(whenever I get one) won't either. I am a very attractive person but I feel VERY ashamed sometimes of my penis size. It sucks.

[Comshaw]

Size does matter to some, but not very many.
Case in point; I once had a lover that was VERY experienced. She had many past lovers in her life when I met her. All the time we were together she would insist on having sex as much as possible. This puzzled me to no end because I'm not all that well built in the penis department, 5 1/2" long and 5 1/2" in circumference. When I ask her about it she giggled and answered my question in a matter of fact, down to earth (which was part of her charm) way.
She said,"You aren't like most men I've had. You know what you're doing and Lordy can you make me cum!"

That was a valuable lesson for me. It taught me to be satisfied with the equipment I came with and to concentrate on using that equipment in a way that a lover will never forget. So don't sweat the small stuff. Learn to be the best lover you can be. Strive for excellence, and if you hear that same kind of statement that came from my lady friend, that's the cream on the pie (so to speak) for it's a compliment that will last a life time.


Comshaw

[Sharni]

Those pills are a sham....put on the market to target guys who think they are inadequate...as are most of the penis enhancers

[Nobody Special]

well believe it or not the average penis size is 4.5 inches...... and the Girth is roughly about an inch.... and they are right it isn't the size but how you use it..... I have been with a few women that have had both Large and small... but I'm about 6 inches myself and I don't conxider myself big or small...well maybe on the small size but htat is just me... but every woman that I have been with has always said the same thing.... I know what I'm doing....

NOw how I got to know what I was doing, I have now Idea... all that I did was asked questions and worked on what they liked and remembered what they didin't, so I wouldn't do it again... and so on....

it isn't the size that matters but what you ask and how you respond to their answers..

E

[Zonetime32]

yeah, thanks for the info guys.

[Lilith]

Spend more time listening to what your woman is really saying/needing/wanting/ ..............grow your heart not your dick:p

[denny]

Lilith has it right, I'm afraid. Methinks the pornos are slanted to what men think. And that is that huge dicks are better for women. Not necessarily the case in my experience.

I would add to her posting that you should grow your heart and your head. And I don't mean the lower head, either.

[axe31]

in alot of porn they use women onthe small side to make the
guys penis look larger and if the average is 4.5 then yous is
larger tan average work on your technek and you will get no
compantes

[Zonetime32]

Well, if I am bigger then average, great. But I would hate to see anyone smaller then me. That would be a REAL shame.

[Deno]

I once had a girl comment that I had the smallest peice she had ever seen right before we went at it. I guess she had been with porn star material or something.. like 9-10 inches. Larger than I by 3+ inches.

Long story short, she went and raved to a few mutual friends about me afterwards. Called me her best ever. I still haven't been de-throned from her mind from what I understand.

Would you think anything bad about a girl with smaller boobs? I think not.. Boobs are boobs right, all of them are beautiful. Cocks are the same deal.

If a girl makes a big deal over your size she isn't worth your time.

[blkcat]

when having sex what does'nt fit in one's mouth is wasted

[ScottWaz]

lol blkcat! alot of guys are concerned with size, and its not that, its all about finding the right person, find that, and it wont matter, plus...some girls are shallow, and couldnt even take a 6" while others are deeper and could very easily take around 9" no ladies like to be stabbed with it! i guess the moral is that girls are different sizes also....so why worry about your own ?! who cares...at least your having sex !!