Do you ever imagine...

[BlueSwede]

Do you ever imagine or fantasize about what sex with you must be like from your lover's point of view? In other words, put yourself in that person's shoes regarding your lovemaking?

I often reminisce about the first time my fiance and I made love, but through his eyes. That was the first time he ever saw my breasts, saw me naked for that matter, had intercourse with me in the missionary position, looking into my eyes as I came, and then what he must have seen and felt when he had anal sex with me, first on our sides, then with me on my stomach, and then up on all fours. I know what parts of all of it turned him on the most, and I can come just thinking about those times in particular, imagining that I am him.

Or am I the only nutty one with too vivid an imagination? :)

[Aqua]

I can't say I've ever really done that, but damn that sounds really hot. I will be trying this... probably in the near future. ;)

[LixyChick]

The only time I've ever imagine this......(and all you ladies from 30 on up will know what I mean).....is when I am on top of him and looking into his eyes. I think......."Oh shit, I broke the golden rule of bending over my lover after the age of 30"!

LOL! Any questions......please don't PM me.....just reply here and I'll try and clear things up!

But to be honest BlueSuede......it's a very lovely and sexy thought and I can see how this would make you all creamy and such!

[jennaflower]

Blueswede... I often did that type of visualization when I had a s/o... it is especially nice when you have an s/o who is very vocal and discriptive of his experience...

[txgrneyes]

Lixy, I know what you mean...lol

And blueswede i too have done that. I thought I was the only one.

[Cheyanne]

Lixy - I am over 30, and have never heard that expression.... clue me in. :)

And yes, I have wondered what it would be like a time or two....

[IceLore]

Hmmm, I've never actually tried that, but I think I might like it. Thanks for the interesting idea!

[skipthisone]

I wouldnt fuck me with a 10 foot pole....I am just not my type

[BlueSwede]

Skip, it's hard for me to explain exactly what I'm imagining, but it isn't that I am trying to imagine so much how my body must feel to him, such as the wetness, smoothness, or tightness of my vagina when he is inside of me, but more that I imagine how HIS body must be feeling. I imagine that I am inside HIS body and I can feel how aroused he is...how his lips and tongue must feel when he sucks my nipples or how his dick must feel to him as he is about to enter my pussy or my ass. I know, for example, that the biggest turn-on to him is fucking my ass. He said recently that there is no other feeling like it, that it isn't just the way it makes his dick feel but, he said, it's like "possession is taking place" (a big turn-on to us both since I'm a bottom and he's a top). When I imagine how he must feel emotionally and physically at that moment, I feel the blood rushing to my pussy, my clit gets hard, and it sets off firecracker orgasms.

[skipthisone]

Well I have always wanted to be a lesbian, so that works.

[BlueSwede]

Skip<-----:)

[Loki]

Oh gosh yes. Its a huge fascination of mine. Learning just how she feels when this or that activity occurs is a splendid course of study. Realizing that it is very difficult to describe these complex physical, emotional, mental reactions not withstanding. Whenever snippets of how our mingling of touch felt from inside her are always cherished.

[BIBI]

Originally posted by LixyChick
The only time I've ever imagine this......(and all you ladies from 30 on up will know what I mean).....is when I am on top of him and looking into his eyes. I think......."Oh shit, I broke the golden rule of bending over my lover after the age of 30"!

LOL! Any questions......please don't PM me.....just reply here and I'll try and clear things up!



OMG Lixy LMFAO.........once you hit 50 it applies to ALL positions lol :D

[WildIrish]

Mrs. WI was once on top of me with her legs straight out. She shifted them so that hers were inside of mine and after our orgasm, she told me that it really turned her on because she got to see what it's like for a guy to be laying between a girl's legs thrusting. If I had been paying attention, I might've gotten something like that out of it too...instead of being blinded by the bright colors! ha ha

[imaginewithme]

Never have done that but I think I might try it now...that was so hot!

[LixyChick]

Oops! I haven't seen this thread in so long I forgot I answered it like I did!

Cheyanne? Go get a mirror and lay it on the floor. Now...get down on the floor, facing said mirror, as if you are on top of Cobalt. Lean over like you are going to kiss his face. Look at the skin on your face. If gravity doesn't take over, so that you resemble a sharpai (sp?...that dog with all the extra skin)...then you needn't worry yet. But, keep checking in this fashion year after year and you'll understand the moment it happens to you!

Back to our regularily scheduled thread!

[cyberkitten]

Originally posted by WildIrish
she told me that it really turned her on because she got to see what it's like for a guy to be laying between a girl's legs thrusting

mmhmm :) i've done that before and it was definately hot! i have a girlfriend who told us once she likes to masturbate with a double ended dildo...one of the jelly type ones that's realistic (aside from it's neon pink color) with half of it inside her and half out. she said she uses lube and jerks off like a guy...and that it's VERY hot. i've gotta admit, i tried it once...and damn, she was right. i came very hard. :slurp:

[krzykrn]

Originally posted by cyberkitten
mmhmm :) i've done that before and it was definately hot! i have a girlfriend who told us once she likes to masturbate with a double ended dildo...one of the jelly type ones that's realistic (aside from it's neon pink color) with half of it inside her and half out. she said she uses lube and jerks off like a guy...and that it's VERY hot. i've gotta admit, i tried it once...and damn, she was right. i came very hard. :slurp:

Ok that is just one hot visual in my head...thank you Cyberkitten :)

As for the original post, I have never done that, but in certain positions I have had my lover ask me what it looks like since she was unable to see it, so in a way I guess I am sort of experiencing it through my narrative.

[Loki]

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