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Rifter
05-31-2003, 05:35 PM
Would you sleep with someone you do not trust? IMO you need to trust the person, after all they could do you harm either physically or emotionally.
jseal
05-31-2003, 06:07 PM
Rifter,

In my youth, yes I would. Now, no.
Sharni
05-31-2003, 06:10 PM
No...i don't think i could

But ya never know unless your in that situation
airhog
05-31-2003, 08:31 PM
Hmm I must figure out how to get Sharniqua to trust me :D

On a more serious note, I would rather trust the person. Its so much easier, and you dont have to worry about anything.
Loren
06-01-2003, 10:00 AM
Originally posted by Rifter
Would you sleep with someone you do not trust? IMO you need to trust the person, after all they could do you harm either physically or emotionally.

No. Never have, never will.
LixyChick
06-01-2003, 03:32 PM
Trust can be violated at anytime before, during, or after.

So....in all logic I would have to say YES! It's happened to me and I learn from my mistakes..........considering I include a "trust violation" a mistake to learn from.......then Yes! I have done it and I won't repeat the same mistake.
PantyFanatic
06-01-2003, 04:35 PM
what LixyChick said
Teddy Bear
06-01-2003, 11:41 PM
I think trust is important in all areas of a relationship. I wouldn't be with some one I didn't trust and therefore would not be sleeping with him.
babybunny
06-02-2003, 12:15 PM
In my own opinion~ Sex requires trust. You are opening up the innermost part of yourself to a person. Do you want to make love to a person you couldnt trust? I dont think I would want to..
Steph
06-02-2003, 12:38 PM
Sometimes sex without feeling is so raw, animalistic . . . who needs trust in those cases?

Having said that, sex with someone you love and trust is better.

Signed,
wishy washy Steph (who's obviously had too many fish puns in chat)
skipthisone
06-02-2003, 12:57 PM
Sometimes there is fucking and sometimes there is sex...it can happen either way
Loulabelle
06-02-2003, 01:24 PM
There are different types of trust. I have slept with a man whom I didn't trust to be faithful but I DID trust him to be honest with me.

I have never (and I don't think will ever) had sex with someone I didn't like (either as a friend or more) and I couldn't ever like someone I didn't trust.

I did lose trust in my ex when he began to become a little too loose lipped about our private life to people like his parents, his work colleagues and our mutual friends. At that point our sex life pretty much ground to a halt.