Have a deliver for Ms. Jealousy

[skipthisone]

So a little while ago, one of my co-workers got flowers. It wasnt her birthday or any holiday. They were from her husband and the card said "just because". She and her husband have been married for about 8 years and all the other women (the bitter older women in my opinion) in the office are trying to convince her that she should not be happy, she should be angry. They explain that he has obviously done something bad like cheat or worse...or maybe plans to do something bad and is buttering her up and she should not fall for it....

I personally think it is wrong to jump to conclusions like this, but they told me to shut up I was just a man....

What do you ladies Think?????





btw, I am now under siege in my office, please send food or someone to fuck me so that it is bearable....

[fzzy]

ROFL .... you are just a man! I like that about you Skip!

Let's see .... if he's never done stuff like that before, then it may bear a bit of inspection on her part ... not necessarily suspicion, but a closer look ... could be someone suggested it in some way and he got thinking he'd never done something like that before for her and cause he loves her so much ... well time to try .... and if she goes home accusing, well darn sure he's never going to do THAT again!

If he's prone to such actions then she should bask in the wonder of it all. My brother is like that, he just really likes doing those romantic little gestures so he frequently shows up with a card or flower(s) or a poem he wrote or such - they've been married for over 25 years.

[skipthisone]

Ok, I just asked and yes, he has sent random flowers before, but it has been a couple of years. And things at home are nothing but spectacular (figures they have no kids)

[Lilith]

Funny when I am guilty I just go shopping :D


There is jealousy when some people see other people happy. Tis a pity but a fact of life. Some people want everyone as miserable as they are.

I think you are spot on, Mr. ThisOne;)

[Loulabelle]

Sounds like a total cutie to me.

Tell the old bitches in the office to stop poking their noses in and suggest that the reason they never get random flowers is because their SOs realise it would make them angry.

Bitter old trouts. Sometimes I can't stand my own sex.

[skipthisone]

You two just became my heros....but I am still stuck in here.

[fzzy]

If he's the type for random flowers .... he probably just passed a florist or saw a florist commercial or someone at his own office just got flowers and he thought of her.....

Yes sometimes a gaggle of girls can be an awful sight! LOL

[Cobalt]

I feel that this is exactly why alot of men arn't romantic alot of the time, when we are we are accused of doing something wrong like a little kid, which we are not. Women do things they shouldn't as often as men do, so it is equal. I have done the romantic things like that in the past, and would still do them if the little money we have didn't have to go for things like mortgage payment, utilities, ect. I really wish I still could do them because I know she really appreciats it and I love her so much that I want her to feel speacil like she is to me. Maybe someday (hopefully soon) I will be able to again.

[Lilith]

sex24/7~ hand deliver, hand picked weeds from the yard...means more than bought ones and the delivery boy might get a tip ;)

[airhog]

I have a rose bush in my front yard, and one time I brought my gf a hand picked rose :D It is still my romantic highlight of our relationship :D

[jennaflower]

sounds to me... as long as she believes all is wonderful in their relationship...

That this man is one who was raised right :)

and YES.. I expect that any future relationship my son has will include spontanious flowers.. or else he will hear about it from ME.

[Steph]

The SAME bloody thing happened to me several years ago when my ex delivered flowers to my office. It causes a commotion and negative Nellies tried to take the fun out of it. Poo on you, I say!

[Vigil]

Why not wait a while then send some flowers anonymously to one of the cobwebs you work with STO?

[Cheyanne]

Yes, receiving a suprise deliver of flowers is romantic, and did bring a smile to my face knowing that you thought of me througout the day enough to want to express your feelings in that way ........................... :heart:

But I really much prefer walking hand in hand around the yard, soft touches as we pass each other in the hall, you coming up behind me when I cook and nuzzle my neck, the big smile on your face as you come in the door after a long day of work, and the way you squeeze me with a hug (and sneak a feel) - just because. :love:

[skipthisone]

Originally posted by Vigil
Why not wait a while then send some flowers anonymously to one of the cobwebs you work with STO?

I have never done that to these, but one of my favorite things to do is to send flowers to someone that the 1st thing they are going to is call their hubby and say thanks....and when he says he didnt send them, the looks on their faces that day why they try and figure it out is worth tons...have only done that once...but was great.

[fzzy]

glad to see you lived to see another day Skip!!!! :)

[babybunny]

I think the flower thing is sweet. I love when my hubby brings me home some or even picks some for me.

Sorry Skip I didnt read this earlier or I couldve snuck in and helped you with the fuck part. ;)

[LixyChick]

*Packing a picnic basket with brew and wine and cheese and strawberries and chicken and raw veggies and all sorts of stuff (and some fun toys and delicious lube) and heading off to the sit it out with skip*

My ex used to send me "just because" flowers at work and I'd get some ooooooooo's and ahhhhhhhh's and then there'd be those very few who said, "He musta done SOMETHING wrong cause men just don't send flowers for nothing. My response (after getting my fill of this old biddy bitterness) was......"Well, maybe my husband really does love me and doesn't just stick around for fear of my wrath.....like yours obviously does"!!!!!! Oh, the looks on their faces was priceless!

My husband (now).............should he ever bring home a flower for me........I check to see if there is a card reading, "Uncle Louie....Our Beloved.....He will be missed".......cause he prolly passed a cemetary on the way home! LOL!

[Steph]

Originally posted by LixyChick
My husband (now).............should he ever bring home a flower for me........I check to see if there is a card reading, "Uncle Louie....Our Beloved.....He will be missed".......cause he prolly passed a cemetary on the way home! LOL!

ROFL! My b/f is always looking to take flowers from gardens for me. Romance? :D

[LixyChick]

LOL Steph! Bailing your honey out when he's arrested for trespassing? Can you say "I Love You" any better than that? Oh Geezzzzzzzz!

[Kimberly73]

My husband and I have been married for 7 years and he has always done sweet things like that for me and probably always will. He is always buying me flowers or just doing things to make me feel special. I think its a wonderful thing to have someone in your life that makes you feel that special.

[Devillishgirl]

I can honestly say that my SO has never sent me flowers. In fact, he's only given me a single rose in the past. That being said, I would not jump to conclusions that he had done something he was trying to kiss up for, I would just assume he had FINALLY caught on to all the unsubtle hints I have dropped in the past. *sigh* Alas, my SO does not have a romantic bone in his body....his idea of romance is to curl up in front of the fire and watch(get this) FOOTBALL :D

[Teddy Bear]

How lucky that girl is to have a SO who sends flowers. Tell her not to pay any attention to those negative, bitter old ladies.

She should just go home and spend a terrific evening showing her love, first a nice home cooked candle light dinner, a soak in the tub together and then a long night of ,,,,,, I'm thinkng they may both need to call in sick for work tomorrow so they can rest up. lol ;)

[Cannibalicious]

I just think it's pretty amusing that something as so small as flowers can strike up so many feelings from so many people.

[dicksbro]

I think flowers or little special gifts to a loved one are great. Try to do that for my wife every now and then.

Hmmm, I wonder why she's holding that new hammer I got her that way? :confused:


Just teasing. :D