I feel like....

[Mercury_Maniac]

I feel like i'm at the point of not caring anymore,


its like even if i will get the chance to have sex, will i be able to handle it and take the opportunity?


i mean past the age of 21 and being a virgin will just be plain embarassing, but to say that i've been laid once maybe twice at the age of 21 or past is just as embarassing,

so whats the point anymore,

i just don't see one

[flutelady]

You know... this is just my old-fashioned opinion, but here goes...

When I was younger, there was a great guy in our group who- although very interested in women and in getting laid- never paired up with any female. He never sparked with any of them, you know? Then Angie came along and everything changed for him. It was like he suddenly found what he didn't even know he'd been waiting for. They sparked in a huge way!

MM, maybe your "Angie" hasn't come along yet. From what I've seen and read from you, you're a fabulous guy, and VERY nice to look at, not to mention very sexy! You feel like, at 21, you're some kind of dinosaur, but you're not!

I have a daughter who is 22, and will be marrying her sweetheart this summer. She spent over 21 years of her life as a virgin... she'd just never met anyone that she cared enough about. Then she found her guy and it all changed.... and she feels that the wait was definitely worth it!

It'll happen when you least expect it... the spark.

[Mercury_Maniac]

i hope your right

[jennaflower]

MM... I am hoping she is right too

HUGS

[imaginewithme]

I don't realy think age has anything to do with it, in my opinion. It's your body, it's your mind, it's up to you. I am 31 and have only had one sexual partner ever. It doesn't matter how many, how often...as a matter of fact, no one ever has to even know. When you meet the right person BOTH of you will be ready for EACHOTHER....that's how it was for me the first time. If I were the girl, I wouldn't want to know that you have been with 10 girls, etc. It wouldn't impress me so don't worry about numbers. I'd honestly be more worried. Take your time. You're a sexy guy that's a fact. It'll happen and when it does, you'll be glad. Keep your chin up! Stand tall and be confident......it'll show

[Mercury_Maniac]

thanks ladies