Virginly Vibrations

[Jaded_Slut]

My cousin, Ali and I are very close. She asked me the other day if I would go to the Locked Door with her and I said sure.

On the way, she asked me if I knew if virgins could use vibrators. I told her I didn't think they couldn't, but I didn't know.

...It's been bugging me ever since. Anyone here know for sure?

[denny]

I am feeling really stupid here. What exactly is the Locked Door? But I do know that a vibrator can be used successfully without rupturing the hymen. Vibe on girls. :)

[Ranger1930]

in all honestly it depends on what type of vibe it is.. obviously if its made for inside of her.. then yes she is going to have some issues the first or second time.. but after that her hymen should be broken and she'll be fine..... but just give the girl fair warning so she doesnt think she's done gone off and killed herself with a vibe the first time she gets a bit frisky....

[Lilith]

Virgin is a concept for most people. I busted my hymen at 3 in a freak accident (non-sexual)...that did not make me no longer a virgin. In my eyes virgin refers to sexual contact with another person not toys, fruit, veggies, or plumber's buckets (don't ask :p).

[dreamgurl]

Yep and I'd do it again. Many think as the woman grows older that the hymen is worn away with tampon use among other things. I for one believe that one must have actual intercourse to no longer be a virgin.

[Steph]

I'm with the two above.

Cucumber, dildo, vibe . . . they don't take virginity away.

[Loulabelle]

I had no idea people still attached any kind of value to the hymen being 'intact'. In fact I'm pretty sure that in Western culture at least, that there is no value to it whatsoever.

A virgin can do whatever the hell a virgin wants to do, and until she has intercourse with a man, she'll remain one.

[Jaded_Slut]

Thanks, everyone. I'll be sure to let her know the interesting results. ^^

[Jaded_Slut]

I am feeling really stupid here. What exactly is the Locked Door?


The Locked Door is a chain store for lingerie and sex toys, stuff like that. It's not really that great, but it gets enough business, I guess.

[skyler_m]

Jaded - Just to be sure, I'd better help you with that vibe trial... :D

[dreamgurl]

Never noticed before but , hiya negibor!

[Irish]

My wife usually has clitoral orgasms.She has always used a tampon,even when we were dating.She used to tell me,that the nicest thing about a
tampon,was that you could masturbate at any time.I would imagine,that it would be the same,with a vibrator!As long as you use it outside,your hymen,
stays intact.I'm a male,so I'm just guessing! Irish

[africandan]

The Locked Door is a chain store for lingerie and sex toys, stuff like that. It's not really that great, but it gets enough business, I guess.
Can't help but think they'd do better with a different door policy!