Why do women want to get their guy with a strapon?

[docemt]

my wife has been persistant on trying to use a strapon or dildo on me. is it a women's drive to bang a guy or what? does anyone have an opinion or comment that they would like to share. oh by the way, this is my first thread.

[WildIrish]

OMG...I'd love that! I'd just like to try it. As far as why some women like it, well I'm sure there are those that enjoy the rush of being in power, as well as those that just like seeing their partner have a good sexual experience. I know one thing...I'm pretty damn interested in hearing from some of our sexy Pixie ladies about this. :D


But alas, Mrs. WI won't go for it. :(


And nice to see you posting. Welcome.

[TinTennessee]

This has been my one fantasy that will not go away! I don't know if it is, like WI said the power/control over the man, the knowledge that you are driving him to a massive orgasm, or a little of both, but one day I will get the opportunity and I'm really looking foward to it. Now that my face is red from embarassment..I'll go. :faint:

[WildIrish]

Nothing wrong with admitting sex turns you on, TT...that's what we're all about. Letting others know that they're not alone in their thoughts about sex!

[darogle]

Been there, done that, and have the video to prove it! LOL It was a rush for me. Turned me on to no end. I think it was the surrender of it all, plus it just felt DAMN good. :) As to why it's a turn on for women, I'm sure I'm not qualified to say, but what WI said sounds about right.

[osuche]

Been there, done that....loved it. And I'd do it again.

Some of it is power and domination....most of it is just driving him wild. ;) :hot:

[Lilith]

Shockingly, I have no urge to wear a strap on. I like using a anal toys and vibes on him but the actual urge to wear one just is not part of my make-up. I think it looks hot and I love watching people enjoy it but it's not a fantasy of mine.

[flutelady]

I have no desire to wear a strap-on, either. But if he wanted me to, I'd do it in a heartbeat.

In years past, I was involved with a man who loved anal play, and I enjoyed seeing how my efforts turned him on. Yeah, it was also a bit of a rush to be in the position of power... but mostly I liked watching him writhe- he reminded me of a cat who'd been properly catnipped.

[Mark Vieth]

Well my man, all I can say is everyone is different. Some girls want to do it, other's don't give a hoot and some want to try it out of morbid curiousity.

Another thing to mention too is, some girls are like "well you want to fuck me up there so why can't I do it to you?"

If you don't want her to do that sort of thing with her, just tell her that "it's not my thing".

I don't know what else to add apart from that.

[docemt]

thanks guys for the replies.

[Cobalt]

Been there, done that, and have the video to prove it! LOL It was a rush for me. Turned me on to no end. I think it was the surrender of it all, plus it just felt DAMN good. :) As to why it's a turn on for women, I'm sure I'm not qualified to say, but what WI said sounds about right.


Pretty much says it for me, excluding the vid. It feels soooooooodamn good.

[WhoamI]

I have a DVD that is about women on men with strap ons. I got it in a box of stuff. I don't really care for it myself but if someone wants it I will let it go real cheap. It is new like 02-03 and probably 2 hrs. long or so. It is brand new but I took the wrapper off. If someone is interrested in it just send me a PM with your email addy and I can send you a pic. of the box.

[FallenAngel5]

Well, I'll blushingly join the group of women with this on their minds. Though it's not really a power thing for me - that's the wrong end of the stick for me. :) It's on my radar because I know how much pleasure I get from anal sex, and would love to show my man the same.

[imaginewithme]

I'd really love to try that.....the idea of getting to thrust the way he does. :faint:

[Pita]

In the words of Darogle; Been there, done that and have the pics to prove it. :D

We have just gotten into the whole anal play in the last 6 months or so. I did the toys on him at first and then we got the strap on. It is a huge turn on to watch him THAT arroused and its a bit of a power thing too.

Although I will say kudos to you men. It is much harder to give then to receive. When I am done using the strap-on all I want to do is just roll over and go to sleep. :D

[Loulabelle]

I have a long standing joke with Fussy about using a strap on on him, because it makes me giggle how opposed to the idea he is!

My only reason for being interested in introducing him to the world of anal stimulation is because I know from past boyfriends how much pleasure it can bring a man (far more than it brings the average woman in fact!)

I have no power or control desires and probably would not want to do him with a stap-on in reality (but don't tell him that! Hehehe!) but I'd love for him to discover the pleasures of anal play sometime for his own benefit.

[rockintime]

This has been my one fantasy that will not go away! I don't know if it is, like WI said the power/control over the man, the knowledge that you are driving him to a massive orgasm, or a little of both, but one day I will get the opportunity and I'm really looking foward to it. Now that my face is red from embarassment..I'll go. :faint:
I always envisioned that that little frog in your AV was on a twig (or maybe a froggie version of a surfboard), but now I see that it's really a...
froggie-strapon!
:yikes:

[TinTennessee]

I always envisioned that that little frog in your AV was on a twig (or maybe a froggie version of a surfboard), but now I see that it's really a...
froggie-strapon!
:yikes:


OMG, I have been found out!! :rofl:

C'mere little boy, wanna see a frog? :drool:

[rockintime]

Approaches T facing FORWARD.

And just how high does your frog jump?

[katekate42]

I'd try it in a heartbeat. He and I have had anal before with me receiving and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I have no idea why he wouldn't enjoy it as well, especially since the prostate is a very sensitive part of a guy's anatomy. I'm not sure why the idea turns me on, but as said before I think it's a matter of being the do-er instead of the do-ee for a change. Just think of how grateful you are when a woman allows you to be inside her... It makes fairly good sense I think :) Glad to know I'm not alone out there!

[texascubfan]

well, this is a nice thread to come back to!

ahem......all of the ladies that are curious to try this or have already done it and love it will please form a line to the left :line: as this is something i enjoy quite a bit. i will be happy to oblige your curiosity, fantasy or needs! :moon:

[Pita]

^^^^Jumps to the front of the line :lust:^^^^^

[TigerTail]

Yeah, you ladies can add me to the list of guys who definitely would like to try this! I have thought about this many times before and it seriously gets me excited!

[acepen]

I asked a girlfriend to have anal sex. She said she would only try anal if she could do me with a strap on first.
We both had a very good time. Remeber to just take your time and go slow.

[dicksbro]

Guess I've always wanted to have my wife do it, but she's shown no interest. Not sure if I'd really enjoy it, but I think so. She will use a small dildo or butt plug and I have enjoyed that (if it's very well lubed). But then, she's never been interested in anal for her, either. :)

Also, a warm welcome to docemt!! :thumb:

[Callie691]

I would like to try it with my hubby. Not really for the control but to show him how to do it without hurting me quite so much. Dont get me wrong he doesnt abuse me. but his technique could use some finesse. And he doesnt seem to understand that you cant use too much lube!! LOL I would just like to show him how fun it can be and how much pleasure can be gained from the experience.

[Galatea]

Its a mindfuck. Thats the whoooooooole reason I want to try it. Its role reversal. Its turning the tables. Its the ultimate taboo. Its power, its domination, its...my hugest fantasy.

I want to do it and hubby wants to do it. But we are both too cheap to spend the money on one.

[WildIrish]

They wanna see the look in our eyes as they inch that bad boy in. Watch our face turn to a mask of pure lust. And when it hits us, they'll know because we'll push back. :hot:

[wyndhy]

i used to want to fuck him with a strap-on, huge huge huge fantasy, and then he bought me one…

the first time i put it on, i was alone while he was away. i had an amazing night with it….amazing. ha! that doesn’t even come close to how i felt. it was incredible, almost beyond words....almost (http://www.pixies-place.com:81/forums/showthread.php?t=24436) ;) but besides just being fun, it gave me a chance to get comfortable with it, learn it so to speak.

the next time it was brought out of the naughty drawer, we were together and he used it on me—a little double penetration. great sex, fantastic sex, but not as good as when one of us uses a hand to move the dildo, cause i can get that off-rhythm pistoning; the dildo going in while the cock slips out. omg, i love that.

and then i finally used it on him. it was just a teensy bit awkward because of me and my inhibitions but also ‘cause the dildo isn’t really firm--it gives a bit--so i had to keep it steady with a hand when what i really wanted to do was grab onto his hips and his cock and fuck him senseless. and i wanted to FEEL it. jesus, did i want to feel it. the flat of the dildo pressed against my clit, and that felt incredible, but i really wanted to feel the tightness, the grip and pull and draw and i slid in and out of him. it wasn’t a letdown--believe me it wasn’t--but it wasn’t as easy as i had expected either. i wanted to fuck him and stroke him and caress his body and kiss his mouth and lick his chest and grab his ass but i couldn’t do all i wanted cause i need almost all my concentration to hold the strap-on in place. we’ve done it a few more times since then, and i’m getting a bit more adept. ;) what i really want next is to use the bigger dildo on him (he’s a bit scared of it though lol)and practice some more.

as to why? i dunno really. it’s sexy, it’s animalistic, it’s domination, it’s pleasuring him…and me. it’s just plain hot and i love it. but i really love that he bought one just for me because he knew it was a fantasy. and now it is a fantasy fulfilled a few times and a fantasy that we can indulge in whenever the mood strikes.

[WildIrish]

and i wanted to FEEL it. jesus, did i want to feel it. the flat of the dildo pressed against my clit, and that felt incredible, but i really wanted to feel the tightness, the grip and pull and draw and i slid in and out of him


:faint:

[sodaklostsoul]

Ditto and double that^^

[bare4you]

A friend recently introduced me to this fantasy of hers - I have to admit I have always wondered and smiled as I thought it in the past. I must say I too am looking for a volunteer to introduce me to this mysterious wonder..... :hump:

[TinTennessee]

A friend recently introduced me to this fantasy of hers - I have to admit I have always wondered and smiled as I thought it in the past. I must say I too am looking for a volunteer to introduce me to this mysterious wonder..... :hump:


:wave: Ummmm, HELLO!!!! Why do I have to keep reminding you people....

I'M FROM THE VOLUNTEER STATE!! :rofl:

[bare4you]

:faint: :shake: :teleport: :x:

[Steph]

What a :hot: thread!

Oh wyndhy -- too :hot:

I would love to use a strap on anywhere, anytime . . . on a female or male or both.

[wyndhy]

Oh wyndhy -- too :hot:


yes. yes it was. ;)

[BIGbad]

I would love to use a strap on anywhere, anytime . . . on a female or male or both.

Cool and by cool i mean :hot:
Bring a bag over Saturday night and you can do both! :jump:

[way22hot]

What a :hot: thread!

Oh wyndhy -- too :hot:

I would love to use a strap on anywhere, anytime . . . on a female or male or both.
My favorite fantasy,and it can only get better
http://www.feeldoe.com/page4.html#VV
:thumb:

[AZRedHot]

I think women want to do it for the same reason men like to do it. It's naughty, it's unusual, and damn if it doesn't feel good. If men get get over the homophobia of it, and realize that their asshole has the same nerve endings in it that make women moan, they could have a lot of fun, and the echoes of the moaning I've elicited with a tongue in that cranny still turn me on...

[Saint82]

Anal play was always a part of my masturbating habits. I had been using dildos on myself a about a year before me and my girlfriend got together. I got her into anal by caressing her butt gently while going down on her. We then progressed to a finger inside. This drove her crazy. She had no idead at that point that I had experience in this area so I coyly said something about wondering what it felt like. So she started fingering me while giving me head. After a while I showed her my dildos. We started using them on each other, in both holes. We talked about using a strap-on. It was always a fantasy of mine. I got her one for X-mas last year, the feeldoe. We love doing that. I think it turns her on more than me sometimes. You should see the look of pure lust she gets in her eyes. I love both the physical pleasure plus the mental aspect of it. I love submitting to her. I think every guy would love his ass being played with if he would get over the homophobic bullshit. By the way I just got her to start posting on here. Her name is Luv2BeLicked. Please welcome her. I'm sure she'll be around this thread pretty soon.

[Luv2BeLicked]

Yes I love anal play with my bf. It is so hot, to be able to reverse the rolls a little for a while you have no idea how hot thatmakes me, but i must say that i had done things in the past but nothing like this before so i was shy at first and now I love it. Sometimes I surprise him by letting him give me anal and then i will return the favor so to speak! All women should try this in my oponion they will have a great sense of control I think !

:devilish: :banner:

[jjintxs]

:( My wife is not into it at all...... I've tried to get her interested but.....nope! Anyone wanna introduce me??? Dallas area!

[rockintime]

Sometimes I surprise him by letting him give me anal and then i will return the favor so to speak!
:devilish: :banner:

Oh, Luv2BeLicked, I think you are going to fit into Pixies just fine. ;)

Welcome and ENJOY!!!

[Zelezniy]

hmm... How should I put my self without sounding to forward ... butt secks rox

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