Does SIZE MATTER

[darkmanx]

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[CptMorgan]

From my experience with women, size does matter. The whole myth about size not mattering is a crock. Of course how well you use it counts, but if two guys have equal skill, they'll take the bigger guy any day.

[rollergrl]

Amen Captain!!!!

[cali]

Yes sir! Size matters a great deal. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.

[darkmanx]

Since we have established that size does matter..what is a good size....by the way I am 7 inches long.

[Bee_Charmer]

A man knows what he is doing with his dick. Any guy can flail a big dick around. it is the man that can feel and caress a woman with a big dick that is truely blessed. ;)

[Kissy]

I have to agree with bee charmer, who the hell wants to be ripped in two by a cave man...Ok sounds like a fantasy, but seriously, if it feals good who cares...;)

[nutworld]

Not being of the female persuasion,
I cant tell if it matters or not..but my guess is that it would.

I'm sure that if 2 guys were the same as far as performance is concerned that the women would take the bigger guy.

but then this is a guy talking ..and I don't compare myself to other men.

[Kissy]

There are never two guys the same as far as performance, just as there are never two with the same exact dick...hello!

[Lovediva]

It's not the size of the ocean......it's how you navigate the ship!!!! ;)

[boogiedown]

i'm about 8 inches which is pretty good, i guess. but what works for me is paying a whole lot of attention to the pussy, orally, first. i'll make you cum all over the place, repeatedly, until you couldn't imagine cumming another drop. i don't care how long it takes. and then by that time it won't matter the size or the motion. you'll already be feeling good so everything after that is bonus.

[Bee_Charmer]

I think it is true that women take longer to achieve orgasums than men. I too like to allow a woman to become totally arroused before making love. some women have a much harder time orgasuming than men....so us guys need to learn to be patient, and let thier excitement catch up to ours. ;)

[Ironwood]

I know this thread died a long time ago, but here's my opinion anyway: of course size makes a difference, but how much of one depends on the individual. It's all very subjective, obviously. Same thing with the question of what qualifies as a good size. It depends on what she's used to and comfortable with. By the way, many women say that girth makes more of a difference than length. ;)

[IndulgenceX2]

This topic never goes out- of- date.
Opinion of the moment is that if a guy is of around average size, technique is more important. If he's not around average (either way), then technique is crucial.
One exception: to get rid of cramps during my period, a long cock and great stamina work better than any over-the-counter remedy (although I haven't tried the guys over the counter, hmmm...)

[jennaflower]

nope.. for me.. it doesn't really matter. I have never been with a man that has been larger than average (not so sure if I would even want to), but I have been with a man that was much smaller than average (maybe 4 inches completely erect and that might be an over estimation). I didn't date him (or stop dating him) because of the size of his tool. I would have had absolutely no issue with it had he made the effort to compensate in other ways.

It is my experience that those men who believe that their tool is smaller than average tend to compensate in other ways. they either become more adventurious and experiment with other postions and introduce toys, etc or they become very knowledgable in the art of oral sex :)

I don't have any desire to have sex with a man and be split in two... and as someone who absolutely enjoys pleasuring a man orally... smaller does have a few advantages (i.e. you don't choke as often). LOL

[bigboy]

Hi Guys,
I havent posted in a while so no one really knows me, but here is my opinion anyway. Even though I'm not a girl, but all of my female friends tell me, it's not the length, it is the thickness. I also use the approach BoogieDown stated...as long as the woman cums, does it matter how big your member is???

[Irish]

I think that penis size;is the initial attraction factor.It's the same as if;a man sees two women.One has large& shapely breasts;the
other has small ones.Even tho;the one with the small ones;might be better sexually;he will probably;pick the one;with big breasts;
because that's what attracts him initially.If two men were side by side;a woman would probably pick the one with the largest penis!
As far as use;women have told me that in their experience;size
doesn't matter.Confidence;in what you're doing; is what matters
most but you don't realise that when you're young and pompous.
I'd like to go on;but at my age;all of this typing;is wearing me out.
It's all I can do;to stay on my soapbox. Irish

[Uncle Silky]

sweet fuckin Buddha's bulbous belly... how many times is this arbitrary topic gonna resurface?

[Irish]

Uncle Silky---That's not Buddhas Bulbous Belly!That's his dick;wrapped around his waist;a few times! Irish

[Uncle Silky]

in Thailand, they'd kill you with yer own shoes for sayin that.

[Vigil]

Typical - you ask women a question on penis size and all the men want to comment. Just shows who its most important to.

http://penissizelinks.com/professional

[Wicked Wanda]

I have learned several things since I first started having sex 16 years ago.

One. There are very few men with penises larger than about 5 1/2 or six inches long. There is more variationin thickness than length.

The largest have ever experienced was at most 7, 7 1/2 inches, and I DID NOT measure it, that is just a guess.

Two. Yes a large, ( long or thick) is exciting, a turn on, when you first see it. Thicker penises, especially when they first enter you are VERY stimulating. The guy with the long thick penis actually hit my cervix with his tip during thrusting and IT HURT!

Three. Guys care more about size then most women.

Four. Small penises do offer some advantages to me, at least. They are easier and more comfortable to perform extended oral sex on, for example. and NO man with a "super penis" is having anal sex with me!!!

Five. A telanted, caring, clean, lover, whocares about your pleasure is preferable to "super penis" who thinks you should be greatful to experience him in bed.


Without any "penis envy"

WW

[Mr. 3G]

In light of the TECHNIQUE / GSpot posting I suppose we should have a discussion on what is the ideal THUMB.

Do you ladies perefer long thumbs?
Short thumbs?
Gnarlie thumbs?
Black thumbs?
THICK thumbs?
Bumpy thumbs?
Curved thumbs?
Which RACE has the best thumbs?
Which NATIONALITY gives the best thumb?

[jjjjbo]

Mr. 3G - ROFL -- great point (or maybe I should say - great pointer finger) lol

[IndulgenceX2]

LOL-
The best thumbs are experienced thumbs, Mr. 3G, very experienced!

[chatboi]

Regarding size and oral technique:

My girlfriend says that she never liked giving head before me, because there was nothing to hang on to. Sucking while supporting th base with two fingers wasn't satisfying. Now she can suck as deep as she wants and also give a good hand motion on the shaft. She won't leave the thing alone!!

Of course she can't take the whole length down her throat, but she definitely votes that size matters when giving head.

[Belial]

Originally posted by jennaflower
nope.. for me.. it doesn't really matter. I have never been with a man that has been larger than average (not so sure if I would even want to), but I have been with a man that was much smaller than average (maybe 4 inches completely erect and that might be an over estimation). I didn't date him (or stop dating him) because of the size of his tool. I would have had absolutely no issue with it had he made the effort to compensate in other ways.

It is my experience that those men who believe that their tool is smaller than average tend to compensate in other ways. they either become more adventurious and experiment with other postions and introduce toys, etc or they become very knowledgable in the art of oral sex :)

I don't have any desire to have sex with a man and be split in two... and as someone who absolutely enjoys pleasuring a man orally... smaller does have a few advantages (i.e. you don't choke as often). LOL

Sorry to bring this up after such a long time, but....
If it doesn't matter, why would a guy need to "compensate" for having a dick 4 inches long?

[lizH]

>If it doesn't matter, why would a guy need to "compensate" for having a dick 4 inches long?<

He doesn't. The problem is if he feels *insecurity* from having a small cock, and feel he needs to compensate by having a pompus attitude or something.

However, there is compensating and there's compensating. I have one ex lover who had a small cock, and he *compensated* by being superb with both his hands and his tongue with oral sex.

BTW, a guy with a very large cock can have comfortable anal sex with you if he's gentle, and doesn't enter you when fully erect.

Too big though, becomes a *real* problem. I've never had a problem with about 8 1/2 inches or so, but when I had someone who was 11 inches and a HUGE girth, we had a HUGE problem. Quite simply, we never managed penetration. He couldn't get into me! I could give him head, but I had to do it French style - that is, keeping it outside of my mouth and licking it. It would not fit in my mouth either.

BTW, our breakup had nothing to do with that.

[sassylove]

Yes, it matters! It is NOT "the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean..." How can ya feel the motion, when ya can't even feel the wave????

And, I agree, just because he is big, does NOT mean he is rockin' my boat....Gotta have rhythm. What they say is true...you can tell a lot about how a guy moves in bed, by the way he moves on the dance floor.....


I also don't think length is the only factor, you gott have width also. I don't think I know the exact measurement of the perfect dick....but I do know when he doesn't "measure up!"

[Irish]

lizH---Did the guy with the 11" die from:
1:Lack of exercise;from lack of activity;from him sitting around;
getting head?
2:Sprained back;from carrying all of that weight around?
I'm sure that there are pros&cons;but that doesn't sound like
a bad choice;to a male!The biggest problem;for him;would be
finding pants with enough room in the crotch! Irish
P.S.3:Heart attack;from getting head; all of the time!

[ScottWaz]

alot of ladies tell me that it has to do with them too...if they are shallow inside or deeper....some ladies could take a 10" and others could get easily filled by a guy that was only 4" i guess you just have to get lucky (more ways than one) and hope that you both fit together very well.

[katekate42]

Exactly Scott! Too big=painful. Too small=not enough sensation. To me, size matters, but in relative terms only.

[khakbar]

Instead of size i think stiffness and powerfull thrust for long time make women happy and satisfy. Anyway 6.5 to 8 is ideal size for female's sensitive cunt

[Mercury_Maniac]

yes i suppose stamina would in some ways overrule the size issue

[wyndhy]

if he can make me moan using only the tip of his pinky then i guess size must not matter.

[osuche]

Real question: Does this question matter??? :D LMAO

[Loulabelle]

Couldn't agree more Osuche!

In my experience the only thing size accounts for is how arrogant the guy is and how much effort he bothers to put into sex.

And the only time I've been disappointed is when a very arrogant guy proved to have nothing to be arrogant about...and then proceeded to treat me (and his girlfriend at the time!) very badly.

[phelan]

it's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean man :)

[wyndhy]

...it's not the amount of jism but the cadence of the rhythm ;)

[BIGbad]

The statistics above say different? Hmmmmm interesting.

[jennaflower]

2 1/2 years after my original post on this subject and I still firmly believe that size doesn't matter :)