one of my best pals and my ex-husband have "got together". Situation is quite weird in that;
1~Have known my pal for 15yrs and know that she deserves a good man after all the hassles she has had to face.
2~My ex and I were never really in "love" and our relationship was doomed to failure before it was started---hind-sight beeing 20/20 vision!
3~Know that I want what is best for both.
4~Worry that the kids will be upset /confused/?????--------our kids have been "family" from the outset.
5~worried that if it doesn't work out that the pain will be too much for those affected to bear!
6~wanting it to work out for the best.
Basically if things go well-----------great##everyone happy
if things go pear shaped----loads of pieces to pick up!

Best wishes that u make the choice that is right for u!

souls_cry2000 ...

If it's a situation where your dick is calling the shots and she is "very sexy" I suggest nurturing the friendship for 6 months, before leaping into a relationship. It would be even better if your "ex" is in a NEW relationship BEFORE you finally make the leap toward the family member.

If you can't wait that long ... expect grief, embarassment and pain to POSSIBLY occur along with the sex.

If both of you can do it in a secretive way for an extended amount of time and she is very sexy ... GO FOR IT! :D

If you get caught ... don't mention my name. I don't know you. lol

Dan