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Honey, darling, light of my nightlife every other weekend.... not everyone is in a relationship like ours, or Lil or some of the others who we know and have met. There are many like Rabbit who unfortunately have to conceal this part of who they are from their loved one, typically men hiding it from their wives who don't indulge or share their tastes for variety. For some it may be upbringing, others some misconceived notion that to enjoy sex and to seek new higher pleasures therein with the one you love makes you a whore, then there are you just plain unimaginative and lazy people....... >elbows Lord Snow on lazy< giggle...... in your typical mainstream Christian Mythology (I'm not belittling, merely saying it's a gathering of oral/written traditions passed down to illuminate a belief system) sex outside of marriage or a lifetime commitment is a sin, sex that doesn't have the chance of resulting in creation is a sin, I'm sure the majority of sexual positions and women achieving orgasms fall under commandments... ( Oh GOD oh GOD...... and Kama Sutra......false idol?) i'm sure theres a translation of the Pentateuch somewhere that makes oral sex dirty and a crime against the mouth with which we should sing His praise..... God has been getting more and more lenient as each division of the bible comes up..... kinda like a new teacher all up tight..... you get tenure and it's like WOOHOO gum? go for it! we have the old testament the new testament.....it's time for the now testament God: the College Years..... if it burns, smoke it. if it has a hole, poke it. If it feels good, do it......


I love nyquil........ I'm going to hell for this...... how many people you wanna guess I've offended? 50? 100? laugh/sob.....sigh

Through another forum, I have had an online affair with a woman for close to a year now. The guidelines are that we will never meet. She is a happily married mother of two delightful boys, and I for one would never want to destroy that.

Why does she do it? To her, physical contact is cheating, and not what we are doing, and besides, what we have together, makes her a better lover with her hubby. (I'll have to take her word on that.) ~grin~

No, it is NOT sin.

>shrug< if you ain't givin away somethin your partner wants and values it ain't cheatin.



>grins and hides to see the look on LS's face for THAT one<

Okay, I doth be confusticated on that one. If you have an open relationship and all the terms and rules are agreed upon that's you're decision. I'm a one guy one girl type of person. You can look, but not touch. It's more fun when she looks with me, but I go home with her and she's the only other person that sleeps in my bed while we're together. I don't think porn, pixies, or sites similar to be cheating or a sin. I think that this site has actually helped me in quite a few ways.

thats why I brought you here darling.




yes, ladies and gentlemen..... he does really say "I doth be confusticated " it's actually kinda cute.

Are you sure about that???

I agree that open attitudes are good, but I'm not sure that really translates to being the same as open relationships. :)

I don't think the site is a sin, but I do struggle with the level of sexuality not really matching up with what the rest of my life is all about....sometimes I'm more aware of those emotions and won't visit quite as often .... usually it means that I spend almost no time looking at the pics these days and have steered clear of writing any new stories for quite sometime now.

But I love the people here, that's what has always kept me coming back!

Yes I am. Because no matter what the relationship is, if you are closed minded then you will never see their point of view on things. With an open mind you are more willing to see the other side and maybe even try something new. I am not saying that being open minded is the best way to be, for some it is not. But I have found that since I open my mind to new things, both sexual and non sexual, my relationships have improved.

open minded is good, open relationship not good for everyone. I'm glad you've found a way that works for you Prophet love.

Lilith has found a way that works for her, congratulations.


I'm not sure I could handle the open relationship thing....when I offered it to my companions in my youth it was me not feeling worthy or not being totally happy in my relationship but refusing to leave until I knew they had someone else. (god why did I bring ex's into this forum.....?)it's taken me a long time but I'm happy and I think I deserve to be happy. I'm in a relationship with someone who is comfortable with himself as well as me and that makes me happy. Do I do shit that isn't on his faves list? yeah. and when he plays with my thighs I could smother him with a pillow but as he said in another thread he's exploring and enjoying the female form, I feel kinda special that I get to be that person. I know I can't be like Lady Lilith.... I control so much outside the bedroom to the point that everyone thinks I'm a cunt that when I'm somewhere I feel safe with a person I feel safe with I want to be able to submit. to give overcontrol to another person. I'm a very high stress person sex is my only release from that. I don't do drugs any more, I don't drink much ( a shot and a half made me tipsy ) I worry constantly. but when it comes to sex I can "give myself over to absolute pleasure" and not worry about anything. Maybe it's an addiction, maybe its an illness, maybe I'm just a needy Dependant individual hence making me not an individual. But a sinner? no.

Lust........ okay how does this not play into lust?
Gluttony......overindulgence of any sort is gluttony
Greed.........I was greedy for attention, not wanting to be a thread killer
Sloth.....my lazy ass is in front of the computer.... how about you?
Wrath.....how many of our beloved pixies have left due to being caught by loved ones?
Envy......picture threads....... I want to look like (>>>>>>>>>>>>>>)
Pride..... LS named his dick pride so at least after everything he still has his pride



the 7 deadly sins.... these are the big ones folks.


damn my education.

Not being here would for me be a greater sin.

I agree dear!

The pride thing was a joke. However, you can always look at it this way. Either you will go to heaven or you will go to hell. If you go to heaven you have nothing to worry about, but if you go to hell you'll everyone one of us there and probably a lot of other old friends and you'll be so busy you won't have time to worry.