^^^^ Stress and Sex ^^^^
 

When you are really stressed out and things are just overwhelming do you usually want sex or do you usually suffer from a lower sex drive then?

Do you use sex as a stress reliever?

Re: ^^^^ Stress and Sex ^^^^
 

Yes, when I can. The best way I know of.

It's a great way to take a break from what's going on and just give in to your passions. Last time I had it was right after midterms last school year, and I think it helped wonders!

I always want more sex especially when stressed and my SO only wants to give it in the morning after the kids are up and running around. ugh

It varies a lot, really.

There are times when I'm so tired I don't even have the energy to masturbate.... and other times when I'm so stressed out but I'm MEGA horny....

It all kinda depends. I think I go through cycles, a few weeks of super horny, a few weeks of not-quite as horny, back to super horny again, etc etc etc.

CasperTG

I am one of those who get stressed and mean if I go without sex, so naturally I view sex as a stress relief.

Sexually,

WW

I don't initiate sex if I'm stressed but if someone seduces me when I'm stressed, I love it!

As long as I feel wanted and loved when stressed I am all up for it. Otherwise dont touch me. :(

I love to have sex when I am stressed - it gives me some good stress relief and puts me right into a sound sleep!

Probably more often than not, I long for the closeness and passion when I feel stressed. Maybe a few exceptions, but not often.

Best way to releive stress....massaging clit vibrator. :D

IS there any other way to relieve stress?????????

To me, I can walk into the bedroom shut the door, get naked and let the outside stressful world be damned...if only for the moment.

My sex drive declines when I am stressed in that I just can't get into the foreplay as I am too preoccupied with the stressors. I'm good for a quick fuck but that is all.

rabbit

That's called the male hormonal period. Yes, boys and girls, we guys have a cycle too. Some are more noticable than others.
And, frequent good sex will keep very real stress levels down.
It's amazing how much you can tolerate when you're getting some good hot sex on a regular basis!

Phew, I'm not just imagining it then! :)

CasperTG

Extremely normal in that aspect!

Now about your other interests....:D

When I'm stressed, I'm too out of it to initiate sex, but if my S/O wants to initiate it can help.

In most cases as yours, the guy should start by giving you a massage, warm slow sensual shower, or something similar.
This will ease your agitation and start producing endorphrins.
Those chemicals will begin balancing your internal organs and relieving the stress that has built up.

Once you are relaxed and content, it's an easy step to soft, leisurely foreplay and building up sexual desire.
And, finally, several great orgasms later, you are stress free for the moment! Take a nice nap and you are good to go for another day or two ! Hehehe!

The more stressed I am, the more I want sex...unless my stress is caused by my SO. THen I may want to masturbate but not want sex w/my partner.

When I'm stressed I lose desire for pretty much anything. I don't eat, I don't want sex, I can't concentrate enough to read, and I get major insomnia.

Well.......shit, damn, fuck......you're good! Sign me up and tell me when and where!!!! I think I sighed "the sigh" by just reading this! Whew! :D

How about now?!!:D

You look stressed! You can spell relieve F R A N K!

Now lay back and just relax. This will take awhile.

But then, you don't have anyplace you have to be right now.

I am not easily arroused when I am stressed..but I tell my hubby to work on me...then as soon as I am turned on stress is gone...I am never stressed when I am with a woman...but I sure feel relaxed afterwards....so it must help there too...

sex is a good stress reliever for me - provided I have the energy to go with it...

STRESS = SEX for me. When I get stressed at work, I sit around and think very detailed thoughts about what it would be like to have wild animalistic sex with whoever is near me at the moment. It takes all my willpower to restrain myself. Really.

If I were ever to have fast, hard, live-in-the-moment sex with a strnager...I would be stressed.

You aren't at work, but being a neighbor in Ohio, am I close enough to you for some of that wild animalistic hot sex?
I'm sure you will be very relaxed when we are thru!

Sounds wonderful to me. Of course, you should probably try to keep me stressed -- that way we can go all night. So which animals should we be???

:lust: