Harrassing/Stalking Members
 

It has been brought to my attention that some members are being harrassed/stalked in emails and/or pm's. :mad: :mad:

If this is happening to you.....please let Lilith, Legend and/or myself know right away. We shall take care of the member/s that are harrassing you.

This will not be tolorated here at Pixies! :mad:

Thank you.

TY Prophet but I assure you there would be little left of them for you to deal with.....

Please remember that I am always available to help with any questions or concerns you may have. Never hesitate to contact me! I always leave my dungeon door open:p

Well I dont know about the rest of you but there was this crow that kept mistaking me for an ear of corn.

I've had my share of stalkers in the past from here. I guess that's why I rarely post and why I'm afraid to post my pics again. I posted pics a long time ago and they ended up posted in places they weren't suppose to be. The emails actually became threatening.

Again I want to remind you ladies, and men too, that the only way we can prevent this is for you to report any inappropriate mail or activity to Me, Diva, or Legend. We can't help if we are not apprised of the situation! TY

Yes, please let us know! I promise I'll sing Henry The Eight over and over until they give their word that they'll stop.

Diva, Lilith and Legend- DON’T TELL US ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM PEOPLE…
 

… unless you mean it!:rolleyes: You can just kick what every is left of them when you’re finished, over to Irish and me.:mad: I’m confident that we (speaking for my buddy) will be happy to TALK to anybody that annoys a family member.

who would be stupid enough to do that online, the person's involved must not have much of a life

legend and all,


(newbie allowed to raise his voice? :) ) wont work, unfortunately you cannot strap the wrongdoers into a Vogonian poetry appreciation chair and then read Vogon poetry to him, does not work online. Excluding the person does not help either, he/she comes back under another moniker and, worse, may attract fellow minds. And you have the mess multiplied.

But what works online: public flogging (hating to say it, but it must be public!!)
if the wrongdoer enters the ethically yellow or red area, he/she can be grabbed by the throat and told bluntly and in extended detail that his/her behaviour is not appreciated at all and why.

Without being agressive to his/her person at all, attack the facts and the behaviour mercilessly! And if other members come and join you, even better.

Been there, done that. Works. Even on covertly hostile or schoolyard bully minds. They do not give their word, BTW, but they start to behave properly.

BTW,
you forum is wonderful; i find me sitting round-eyed and open-mouthed and unable to believe it. Mostly concerning social interaction (yes, admitted, finding out about most-off-road ways to play together, too :) ). Like a big, intact family.

Considering the mere size and knowing other forums and their style, it is a wonder to me that so few flamers and other wrongdoers are around. Compliment to the moderators and leading minds!

Greets,
Bernhard

Prophet Reality,

thanx for the clarification and thanx for the welcome! :)

Greets,
Bernhard

Being relatively new to Pixies...could I please have the "pixies" definition of "Stalking/Harrassment?" During the past month that I've been a member, I've responded to 1 PM, and have sent only 2 unsolicited PM's to 2 different members. I Hope that is not considered stalking/harrassment. Please enlighten me as to "Pixies Etiquette."

reptitive, unwanted PM's would be considered harrassment divot109 - i.e. if someone keeps sending you messages even though you've told them you do not wish to receive any more, that would be harrassment.

ahhhh, if you were to read vogon poetry to anyone that would DEFINITELY keep them in check, i mean, it IS the worst poetry in the galaxy!

ok, for any of you who have no idea what that was all about, read the hitchhikers guide to the galaxy by douglas adams, great group of books.

and as far as harrasment is concerned, the people that post up there pics on here do so of there own free will, harrassing them will do nothing but make them not want to post. I personally enjoy looking at all the pics that are posted up here (don't we all :D ) but if those few people keep harrasing, no one will be posting pics up and this wonderful site will be no more :( (and i just found it a couple days ago!)

SO KOCK IT OFF!!!!!!!

...just a thought...perhaps a public embarassing...a thread for known offenders...a public warning...then remover them from the site if they re-offend...just a thought...

Sounds like a damn good thought to me erotic51! Anybody who is low enough to come on here and stalk and/or harrass the people here, should be humiliated:p

*Clint

Hi all, today is my first posting. I have surfed the site for a while and find it great. I would hope that all the "no lifers" stalk someplace else...............

I posted pics a long time ago and they ended up posted in places they weren't supposed to be.

I can understand how that must have felt. That's shitty, and a violation of trust. What a jerk he/she was.

The emails actually became threatening.

I can't really undersand this one. I would have busted a gut laughing. How can an email be threatening? Did the person know who you were in real life? Did they know where you lived, aside from general location? If so, then the mistake was yours.
Never give that sort of info out to strangers or people you don't know really well.

If not, what were you worried about? I would have posted the "threatening" email up on the forum for everyone to read, and, like I said, laughed my ass off at the poor loser who sent it. I can't figure out what scared you about some clown's email.

-SC

No doubt . I mean , if somebody's bugging you , simply telling them to go screw , either nicely , or spelling it out should do the job , if the individual has any self-respect , but as to those who do not , well.. it sucks to see that some people out there are just that ignorant

Ladies, I believe your problem has been irradicated....If you continue to have trouble let me know...nothin' I like better than kicking ass for breakfast. :p

you go girl :D glad to know you are helping keep Pixie's safe, a great big THANK YOU.

This is exactly why I LOVE it here !!!
We all look out for each other and support each other.
We really are one big happy (horney) family!!!!

Thanks for the reminder that we should all be aware of what's
going on and report any kind of harrassment.

I feel very safe here, and I just want to take this opportunity to
say thank you to all of you for that.

It's nice to know that someone is looking for us and that we are
looking out for each other.

like summer camp, without the candy-lubed rape.

pantyfanatic---I just read thru the threads.TY for your confidence
in the way of handling things.As you get older;you learn that what
you do;affects your family!The last time that I let my impulses take
over;I;1:Got arrested for Aggravated Assault.2:Had to close a
motorcycle;customizing&repair business.3:Had to go to regular
court&then Superior Court.4:Got sentenced to 3yrs&1day in Concord State Prison.5:Paid $500 to get probation instead of doing jail time.6:Paid $300 for a complete;record annulment!
7:Worried the hell;out of my wife&kids;because they were; worried about the consequences;more then I was.8:Lost my concealed weapons permit.Got it back;after record annulment.
All that I can say is:Would I do it over?You bet you're ass!You still
have to look back at yourself in the mirror!You have to live with
yourself but you handle things differently!There are few that I would trust to watch my back but you sound like one of them.
Remember:Violence solves nothing but we both know that it works;in a pinch! Irish

sorry hardinsd Vogon poetry is the third worst in the universe...for the really silly people you should read something from the Azgoths of Kria eg: My Favorite Bathtime Gurgles by Grunthos...their poetry being the second worst in the universe

I love the picks but dont reply much as i dont want to be accused.
I think when you are told no that should mean no. You will always get the odd one or two that spoil it. Throw them to the lions

hey Legend i was just reading this post and when you said you would sing henry the 8th which version and do you do requests would love to hear I am henry the 8th I am I am Henry the the I am in a wav the 60's or was it the 70's version have a great one

Lilith, you have me positively terrified. While I refrain from any harassment, your promises of kicking ass and offer to confront assholes is only matched by the offer of an open dungeon door. I've never been pointed in this direction before but I certainly feel the beginning of a sub trend in myself. God help me!