??A Couple Question??
 

If you are one of the many couples that visit Pixies I am curious what, if any, effect you think Pixies has had on your relationship?

Has it increased your communication?

Has it changed your sex life for the better or worse?

Have you gained any benefit from your visits here that are evident in your relationship?

Oh! Also who brought who here????

Re: ??A Couple Question??
 

Not that much at all really

Yep

For the better

Well i for one have more self-confidence

Oh....that would be me!! :D

Re: ??A Couple Question??
 

Not significantly


Yes


For the better


Yes , it's expanded the subject matter so it's easier to talk openly and frankly about intimate things without embarracement or fear of ridicule or rejection


I did

Generally, my wife doesn't get on the ocmputer at all, but just a week or so ago, I got her to sit down and look at some of the "games" I enjoy and shared some of the wondeful notes I got from Pixie friends regarding my surgery.

She seemed genuinely impressed. Hope one of these days I can get her more interested ... but at least this is a start! :)

We use things we have seen on pixies as talking points between us, so yeah, it has increased our communication.

She found it and I regitered and come here often.

Interesting

Found it through Jane's Guide or Scarlet letters (both great).

It has helped me be more confident, it has helped explore my sexuality. The single biggest thing is that I have found a community which tells me that:

I'm not sex obssessed - I'm healthy
I'm not wrong to see sex as a positive life-affirming force
That those here, myself included are degenerate but articulate, healthy and open minded.

wildeye feeling kinda motivated

I (the wife) signed us up. Our relationship is good sexually, and we like to experiement. We love each other deeply, and when we give pleasure to each other - it just intensifies the relationship.

We found that we weren't alone in the "perverted" sense :D :D :D.

This site is refreshing, full of information, and honesty. We enjoy the fact that we can communicate with other couples like us, and like the frankness of the discussions. WAY TO GO!!!!!

Re: ??A Couple Question??
 

He kill me if I communicated more! I mean.......I am me and I go on and on even when I am not here at Pixies to drive everyone nuts!

Also.........he brought me to Pixies.........and I love him more and more everyday for that!

Ok for what its worth she doesn't come here, but who are the paired off couples on here?

*bump*

Bamakyttn brought me here.
It's increased my understanding of her and women in general, so I'd say it's been a benefit
It's increased communication a bit, but we were pretty good in that department before hand in my opinion.
It hasn't changed the sex life. Yet.......