Was happy to share my opinions and experiences. Just remember even though you may love her little "pudge" that will be the absolute toughest thing you will get her to appreciate about her body. She could weight under a 100 pounds and still be worried about her stomach. Just remember that you are dealing with fighting images that media of all kinds (advertisements, Tv shows, movies, magazines, etc) have been pushing her to believe is 'preferred". Be ready for her saying things like "you just say that cause you love me and are stuck with me", or "you don't really mean that" or my personal favorite from one of my exes "your just biased".

I hope you can get her to be comfortable on top. It really is a nice position and one of my favorites because of the numerous ways it can be utilized as well as the intimacy that can be gained from using it.

Just remember to be patient above all things and to not push too hard for it.

Good luck and hope above all that you and your lover have wonderful times together.

P.S. Thank you for your sweet comments Mrs army. I don't think I have quite the experience or authority to write a book but glad to see that a woman could relate to and appreciate what I have written. And there is nothing wrong with a "fat bottomed" girl. I am sure your husband has zero complaints. /wink