I'm with gekkogecko on this one, WI. When it's time to play the "bad girl," it's either been discussed between us beforehand, or he uses my alternate BDSM "name," the name he calls me when we play like that, to let me know we've switched over to THAT kind of play.

My sweetie and I have a high, healthy level of respect outside of the bedroom, and that carries over inside the bedroom as well. I know if he calls me that or some other flavorful noun, it's meant in the context of the moment and not as a reflection of how he feels about me in general.

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