Hmmmmmmmmmmm a lady once informed me that she loved to be called bitch.......in her mind the acronym for bitch......was B:broad.....I:in........ T:total......C:control.......H: of herself.......so in reality to her......it was not a slur but a compliment, albeit not given as such in the context of the moment.With respect of your other in a relationship.....one is able to exact the true pleasure and and moments of passion.....and not be confused by spontaneous behaviour in the bedroom.Just my two cents........