in our house i do as im told lol,seriously the bible was written when man was the dominant partner but in reality of the 21st century there is equality amongst sexes,she does as she wants and i do as im told lol but in truth cpls today are more likely to discuss and debate rather than the male being the deciding factor,ive been with my wife since we were both 16yrs old and we are both heading for 44yrs old(u do the maths lol)theres no dominance from either side cause neither of us belive in the "bible",as i have always said "who wrote the bible..........man?????????????" only thing the bible is good for is a read when you dont have wireless internet in your hotel room assuming noone has nicked it lol