I personally think that there isn't any step by step instructions that could possibly be a sure thing..

Sorry.. but EVERY man is different and indicating that EVERY man would fall for such "traps" isn't realistic. Yeah, those steps my work on a small portion of the population.. not anyone I know..

Guess I believe.. that IF/WHEN it is meant to happen.. when a connection is meant to happen.. it will.. and no steps (or lack there of) will make a difference.

just my 2 cents..

Just kinda bothers me that anyone can claim that it can be that easy.. after being alone as long as I have been.. I KNOW that easy doesn't enter the equation..