Gotta agree with the farty one above me. Any further 'ship' u have with this guy - relationship, friendship, battleship whatever - it's only going to further enrage your marriage.
Why complicate things? You wanted fun, you had a go, it didn't work out. Move on to something else, possibly something less marriage-threatening. Like His 'N' Hers Brazilian waxing.

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