10-26-2008, 02:50 PM
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Starry-eyed Pixie
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Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Alabama
Posts: 1,220
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Originally Posted by Nadia
he decided he didn't want to do this anymore so he told me to stop so I did but told him I wanted to have this guy in my life as a friend only, my husband flipped and since then all we do is fight about it. what do I do?
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i dont think the problem is lack of information in this case Cjack. I believe that hubby just didnt realize that this wasnt a fantasy that would all be okay when he opened his eyes.
to address CJacks' buzzwords
Love { both get an A} their love for one another is obvious in their willingness to try new things to enrich their sex lives together. Trust { both get an A } hubby obviously trusted her to use protection and to choose a partner that wouldnt endanger her; she trusted him to tell her if he had a problem with the interactions. Communication she failed to tell Option #2 she was married. When her husband told her he wasnt comfortable with the reality of the situation she cant seem to respect his needs for a monogamous relationship.
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