LS, there was no other person involved. It was a single car accident that was caused when my husband fell asleep driving home from work. He was working 2 jobs and only getting about and hour or 2 of sleep between the 2. He went off road, into a ditch, hit a concrete culvert and jumped a drive way for a business--landing about 50 ft from where the truck initially left the road. He was hauling a load of furniture (we were moving at the time) and the impact in the ditch caused the sofa he was hauling to slam into the cab of the truck (separating the bed from the cab a good 2-3 inches) which broke his back. The insurance on the truck has already paid out their max of $5000--and that barely covered the ambulance ride and time spent in the ER. So, tomorrow, Apr 2 is officially 9 mos since the accident. He's MUCH better now...but no where near "normal". We have a whole new "normal"...and have had to get "creative" in some areas of our relationship/lives. But it is what it is and I'm just 100% thankful he's still with me and our kids.

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