This has more to do with courage and confidence than "hooking up". If you're detail oriented, you could figure out her feelings without her telling you. Therefore, the answers in your head.

If I was in your position and she looked like my type and she had the personality to go with it (like Mena Suvari from the American Pie Movies). I would do this.

I would (1)recall everything that she finds sexy in men, (2)compare all her current boyfriends and ex-boyfriends, (3)improve my looks and tweak my personality to what she likes, (4)look for small signs that shows she likes me, (5)gradually monopolize a Friday night or a Saturday night and (6)see if she starts flirting with me from my improvements.

If the previous 6 steps don't work, you will be a better person and other females may be interested in you. It's a win win situation.

If she's that incredible, my plan would be to have as a girlfriend or a close friend. Either or but not Nothing. If you confess your feelings, understand the repercussions. You may be disconnected from her completely.

Dan

P.S.>> By the way, if you hang around her alot and you just want a girlfriend. Some females may already think she's your girlfriend or she likes you. This can be a helpful resource or a problem. Don't cross off other girlfriends that might be interested in you. To have a girlfriend whose a friend AND a real girlfriend at the same time is a good situation. The type of situation that makes you sexy in the eyes of other females AND get respect from the fellas.



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