Good poll, Cjack. As another writer of erotic stories, I like to know too.

One thing that was not there, that I like, is to have sex with one's regular partner or a romantic partner for the first time. This isn't cheating or swaping... more of an extended romance.

Another whole theme that I write about quite a bit are threesomes, either MMF or FFM where everyone is sexual with everyone else - as in these are bisexual fantasies, either way. I don't think threesomes work well at all if the two same-sex people are completely anti-homosexuality.

A lot of what I write are true stories, with the names omitted or changed. I sometimes mix two or more encounters in a way that they work nicely.