Hi Tink.....the key is to relax and to use lots and lots of lube..everyone will say it....and it is that easy....taken slowly..with lots of open communication....it is wonderful.....amazing....i love it. But and especially the first time go slow...and lots of lube....take your time penetrating too...so you can relax....and stop if you need to....wait a while then try again..but dont be put off...it can be incredible

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