I tend to believe the are several possible mates for any one person. The trick is for that person to grow in the same direction once you've gotten together. Sounds simple huh? At 45 I'm wondering if I'm growing in circles or just in a direction of solitude. I love whole heartedly, I strive to be understanding and open to their needs and wants, but so far.... no cupie dolls stayed. I still hold hope to one day find passions and explosive romance that alienates doubt that there could be another.... but then I've always been a dreamer.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery