1. Have you talked this over with your wife? Find out
why she feels this way.

2. Not everyone is comfortable with crudities and even
fewer with some oral activities.

3. See if you can get her to talk to a sexual counsellor,
with you, so you both know where you stand.

4. This post is about you, not her. If she doesn't see her
attitude as a problem, maybe the problem is your
expectations.

5. See 1,2,3 in that order.

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