In most cases as yours, the guy should start by giving you a massage, warm slow sensual shower, or something similar.
This will ease your agitation and start producing endorphrins.
Those chemicals will begin balancing your internal organs and relieving the stress that has built up.

Once you are relaxed and content, it's an easy step to soft, leisurely foreplay and building up sexual desire.
And, finally, several great orgasms later, you are stress free for the moment! Take a nice nap and you are good to go for another day or two ! Hehehe!