GermanSteve-- I would agree with everything SEPT the get a new girlfriend part, Thats just RUDE. Maybe the fact is is that they are both young, and are just both learning how to be together. Telling him to find someone new because he cant get off for her is wrong. Now if he is unhappy with EVERYTHING in their lives together than yah time to find someone new. The thing about him learning to relax is right he needs to be relaxed and just go with it, I remember when me and my hubby met at age 15 it was hard for us to feel comfortable together, it took some time. BUT thats just it it takes time..We have now been together almost 6 years, 21 and 22 years of age, and things are great. BUT we stuck together and worked things out. The only thing he needs to do is talk to her and TELL Her that his lil issue isnt her fault. SHE needs to be open minded and talk it out with him, her fears her worries her problems. If they cant talk about it and sit and say "you cant eat me if i cant get you off" well that puts strain on the issue and will make it worse. May i sugest that SHE reads these posts and knows that its not her and that you need to work together and be one together.. I dont know what else to say or even if this makes sence. BUT stick together you will be happy one day!!
hopes for you
Sarriah

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