First off - ths is what I believe dreams do... All of us in our everyday lives have a tendency to be stressed, supress emotions, thoughts and worries. I believe that dreams are our minds way to release some of what we choose to either ignore, or keep hidden from others - a cleansing so to speak. That being said - I also believe that the majority of the human race looks at things somewhat negatively - it is human nature. Kinda like the glass is half empty rather than half full. We generally notice things that are ugly and negative before we allow ourselves to see beauty and kindness...I am not saying that ALL of us do that, just the majority.

Inner concerns or worries effect us more that we believe. ((((Lixy))))and ((((osuche)))). I believe that these dreams are telling you something, but not necessarily what you are literally seeing. The general theme in both dreams is losing someome you love dearly. I don't pretend to know eveything that is going on in your lives, but I have been getting the impression that both of you are very very busy ladies!

Osuche- you have been traveling a lot and really haven't been grounded to home that much lately - thus, a lot of your communications to those you care deeply about are taking a back seat to your work. Perhaps your dreams are telling you that you need to make sure that you stay in communication with those you love, and who love you. Also, since you stated similarities between a previous dream which effected you deeply, you may be worrying that your grandfather is going to pass and associating the time frame (age) of that happening with when your grandmother passed - and your brain is perhaps relieving you of that worry or giving you an answer to your feelings through your dream.

Lixy - you have also been very busy - working a lot and from what I understand, doing a lot of "house" work...yard stuff, etc. In your dream you are in an "insignificant room" doing something like sorting clothes...busy work that may be interfering with your time with your husband.

Sometimes we get caught up in things that we THINK we need to get done at the expense of our relationships with others. I believe that your dream is saying that to you. The fact that there wasn't any blood or gore in your dream doesn't indicate a violent situation, but an emotional situation. The love you are seeing in his eyes and the feeling of "getting the moment back" is your inner desire to spend more "quality" time with your husband without the added distractions of all the work the two of you have been doing.

Ladies - I am not a "dream interpreter" and what I have read about dream interpretation has been prompted by dreams that I have had. These are only my perspectives on how I would probably analyze those dreams had I had them. I may be totally off the mark here, but again maybe not.

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