Depends on what she's in the mood for.

When she wants a fun night out and cuddly sex...yes.

But if she wants "to hell with married life and family, just take me now you hot stud, and don't stop until I suck the last breath from your lungs"...it's Vigo.

Then again, if she wants someone to watch the kids...I'm her man!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.