"Wow, you guys kicked their asses" in the car on the way home is ok in my book. With opposing team members and parents around isn't. No reason to disrespect them.

I think you were caught up in the excitement and you let it be shown. Totally understandable and no outrageous at all. You displayed enthusiasm without disrepect.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.