Simple question, to which I have a complicated answer.

I learned long ago that in order to have a relationship with someone, we do have to agree on a lot of things. Right, wrong, kids, and all the other biggies.

In order to sleep with someone, well...I have to like them. It doesn't take much for me to like someone, mind you, if the chemsitry's there. But it is necessary. And it can be anything. Smart, funny, kind, whatever. And heaven knows I've slept with people before knowing them well enough to know if they qualify as a bitch/bastard.

But as far as sleeping with someone I actively disliked.....couldn't do it without rohipnol. It takes a lot to make me dislike someone that much. But yeah, if I know they're cruel, bigoted, judgemental or hopelessly self absorbed....no chance. I've had the chance, I've even fantasized about the son of a bitch (and felt kind of icky about even that much)...but when it came to it, I turned him down. Yea me .