for me, the intensity has nothing to do with how many or how few i've had in any given period of time. i didn't have any Os for over a month while i was rucouping from the c-sec. (although i did give bigbad a bj or two and my sexual frustration was a palpable ache) and when i finally felt that i could handle one, it was sort of anti-climactic so to speak. it didn't hurt, and it didn't take long for me to get "there" but it was just sorta...eh. i find it's the way it comes, the uh... method...if you will. and most of all, it has to do with what i'm thinking about when the point of no return is upon me that can make it a legs-turned-into-jello orgasm.