In years past, my orgasm would be stronger if I would build up, stop, and build up again, etc. I've never done that a number of times over several days' time, however, to see what would happen. I won't even do it on purpose in one session any more, because all too often I will have happen what GingerV described--teasing myself too much and then having a hell of a time coming at all. And then when it DOES finally happen, it's a blip rather than a firecracker. I do find that if I don't do ANYTHING for a few days, my orgasm will be much stronger when I DO have one again.

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