Interesting question... and difficult to answer with "specifics." (BTW, I've never heard it called "pulling" before, must be I've led a sheltered life.)

I'd say don't worry about it... chances are your girlfriend is as nervous and inexperienced as you are and half the fun will be experimenting and learning together.

If she isn't inexperienced, just follow her lead. :-)

And depending on how "young" you both are, be careful and think with your heads, not your mouths, tongues, and glands. There's nothing wrong with saving some mystery and excitement for a little later in life.

Wally

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