I've been married for 12 yrs. After 2 kids and a lot of sex, she still won't touch herself during love making, she can't say the word pussy, clit, cunt, whatever you wanna call it, and she won't even kiss me after I have eaten her out. The really frustrates me because I really want to get lost in the moment with her and I can't. Has anyone else had this problem and what did you do about it? Any suggestions would be great. I love my wife... but I have had just about enough. HELP!