It seems that many people here at Pixies have tried anal and most seem to like it. I have even noticed many men who enjoy using toys for that pleasure. I've tried a little anal play, although the whole idea of sticking my finger up there or having someone do that to me is just not my thing. I wouldn't be opposed to anal sex however, although my man has never hinted to an interest in that. Just wondering if just because we don't get much enjoyment out of a little anal play means we wouldn't enjoy anal sex. Have people found that one thing has nothing to do with the other? I assume it's something you ease into...so to speak. Any pointers on how to explore what seems to be a huge pleasure point for many people? I'm also worried a bit worried about by guy loving it and me not and then we have a satisfaction issue. Anyone run into that or have similiar fears when trying it for the first time. Where he hasn't brought it up I wonder if I should leave well enough alone.

Another question. How many guys just enjoy anal sex with their partner, but don't have any interest in anal play with toys? Just wondering if one has to lead to the other. I would assume they'd want to try it at least once so they know how it feels for us ladies? I'm just worried about that becoming a huge part of our lovemaking because I don't see me liking it. I love watching him masterbate, but for some reason that's totally different.

Thanks in advance for any feedback.