My boyfriend of almost 3 years and I have a wonderful realtionship. I love him and sex is great between us. We talk about everything and we love to experiment with each other. We are a very opened minded couple. He's away for the summer and I started fooling around with a few other guys...at first, I didn't want anything serious to happen but, I'm a very passionate and horny person...so, I"ve had sex with these guys...it wasn't anything special but I got off and so did they.

My issue is: I don't want to tell him about my 'affairs' because I'm afaird it would hurt him. I've told him that he made the decision to leave and I wanted a break...I wanted to see what other people were like (he was first and only and I just wanted to try new people) In my mind, I am not cheating because I told him that I wanted to be with other people, he just didn't accept it. I don't want to tell him about my little adventures because I don't want to hurt him ( I love this guy). So, in order to make my telling him easier, I'm trying to convience him to sleep with a female friend of his who sounds like she has the hots for him... I feel bad but, I don't...I'm messed up what should I do, please advise

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Sue