Katebabe, Nic_Hex, sorry for what I said at the beginning about new girlfriend... I can see that you are youngsters and surely cannot know everything. Stress is always bad for good sex.
One thing that is always good for a relation is talking about your own opinion and wishes, but respecting the ones of the other one.
Congratulations, have much fun, and be welcome here.

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