Sounds to me that perhaps your definitions of 'Fuckbuddy' are different. For him, it seems that he's using you in the same way that he would use a porn film. Flick it on when you're in the mood and then get it the hell off your screen when you've had what you wanted from it.

You on the other hand, think of this as a friendship with sex. Perhaps he has difficulty differentiating between "friendship with sex" and "a relationship" which is why he doesn't communicate with you the way you'd expect him to.

All in all, if the relationship is making you feel used and/or dirty, then ditch it. If you think you can use him in the same way - think of him as free porn and nothing more!- then try going ahead with a relationship that way. I don't think you're going to get the trust and friendship you're looking for with this man. It's clearly not on his agenda.

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