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Old 03-14-2002, 05:49 PM
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Angry Cant get off...

My GF is getting pissed because she cant get me off w/ a blowjob or by hand. We have tried just about everything we can think of (even being drunk) and still no go. Normaly after about 30min of good sucking (MY GOD IS SHE A PRO) Im still not gonna blow. SHes not bad at it..I just take a LONG time...Is there anything her or I can do? I even tried not beating off and it still doesnt work. Its starting to get her mad, and now she says I cant eat her out untill she gets me off! I dont know if I can live knowing I cant taster her sweet pussy. (I mean I BEGG to eat her out) Can some one please help? Im tired of jurking off/her not geting me off. (And seeing her pissed because I can get her off and she cant get me off aint kewl) Thnx..


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Old 03-14-2002, 06:04 PM
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HI,
I dont know what to tell you to try, but I do know that being drunk wont make you go faster. In all fact it makes it harder for guys to go when they are drunk. Thats if they can get it up LOL (im talkin real drunk tho not tipsy) How often do you get off ? If you are up to at least once a day then you WILL last longer and there isnt much you can do about it. I know this because me and my hubby went through the same thing. Just let your GF know that its not her and not to feel bad. Have you tried lots of foreplay, and making out, petting and such before she trys to give you a BJ ? cause the more you wait to go down on a man the easier it is to make em go... Sorry I dont have a better answer for you. But Good luck. Maybe you two can sit here on the site together and look at the pics, Then try to get eachother off that way? Just a thought

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Old 03-14-2002, 09:07 PM
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My last boyfriend had never gotten off from fellatio but I fixed that... it took two hours a a severe case of lock jaw but it was soooo worth it I dunno what to say but to be patient, both of you.

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Old 03-14-2002, 09:43 PM
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Thnx for the advice....and I know theres nothing I can really do...Oh well..thnx..and im still open to ideas..Im about to have her try ice or something of the likes in her mouth..any ideas on that on?
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Old 03-14-2002, 09:47 PM
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have you ever heard of the stuff called "good head" ?? You can get it at most sex shops. Its mint stuff that not only tastes great for her, but feels great on him. Why dont you try that we love it ;P
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Old 03-14-2002, 09:57 PM
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yep I recomend the "good head" jelly as well it dose feel good and speeds me up.
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Old 03-15-2002, 02:56 AM
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Lightbulb Nic_Hex,

First off, let me ask this... Have you and your g/f ever had sexual intercourse? Also, are you a younger couple?

For me, personally, it seemed harder to get guys off orally when I was in HS as apposed to my mid twenties now. And, if you are sexually active, I'm sure you'd obviously cum from intercourse. So, you two could enjoy blow jobs as foreplay and then move on to more later!

For some reason, some men just cannot cum (or it takes them a very long time to cum) from oral sex. It's not necessarily a physical or mental problem the guy suffers, it's just the way it is. If you two have not engaged in sexual intercourse yet, and do not feel you are ready for that, you can always suggest 69. That way you can also eat her pussy. Perhaps pleasuring her while you're being pleasured will help to relax your body and help you cum somewhat faster?

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Old 03-15-2002, 06:28 AM
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We're not to sex YET, but who knows. And I have been thinking about 69, and well, sounds fun to me! And BTW, we are both 18 and loving it. She and I both know its just the way things are w/ me. But she said no talk about sex untill she can get me off. Now I can look at this 2 ways...1) More blow/hand jobs than you can shake a dick at, or 2) Looks like Im not having sex for a LONG TIME. And i dont mind the no sex, but DAMN IT..I like eating her out!! I just wish I could explain to her in a way that she will understand, because she still feels she sucks at blowjobs (in a bad way) when she sucks JUST FINE! In fact she gives the BEST head in the world (well at least that I know of :-P ) Keep the ideas flowing, cuz god knows Im open to a lot of things
(Alos, I just thought of this, I have my cock pierced [Prience Albert] NE one here have that and noticed this problem!?!?!?!)
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Old 03-16-2002, 02:40 PM
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Nic_Hex, tell us, when DO you have orgasms?

I think, what is happening to you is happening in your head. The most common reason for impotence is any kind of stress.
Let me tell you an example from my personal experience:
I am now married almost three years, and now already waiting 3/4 of a year for my divorce. (In Germany you have to wait 1 year before you can be divorced)
Living with my "monster" was pure horror. A very stressing stuff. That caused that I started being impotent. Finally my only way to get off was masturbating in secret. This woman was my way of getting stress. Now, because I am alone already 9 months, all my manpower has come back.
I think your problem is that you cannot relax in the right way. There is a person watching you, manipulating, sucking your most private thing. And your girlfriend is giving you still more stress by not giving permission to suck her out. You say she is getting pissed. (to be continued)
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(part 2)
Surely all that turns you down. Perhaps not completely, but enough not to get off. Not important.
I know how you are feeling.

My tip: look for another girlfriend that in your case just smiles and continues loving you in the same way. By the time you will be able to relax during her presence because she accepts you as you are. And this will be the solution. Do not think youīre not a man because you canīt. Accept that there exist times and situations without the control of your body functions. You are not a machine, you are human.
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Old 03-16-2002, 02:55 PM
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GermanSteve-- I would agree with everything SEPT the get a new girlfriend part, Thats just RUDE. Maybe the fact is is that they are both young, and are just both learning how to be together. Telling him to find someone new because he cant get off for her is wrong. Now if he is unhappy with EVERYTHING in their lives together than yah time to find someone new. The thing about him learning to relax is right he needs to be relaxed and just go with it, I remember when me and my hubby met at age 15 it was hard for us to feel comfortable together, it took some time. BUT thats just it it takes time..We have now been together almost 6 years, 21 and 22 years of age, and things are great. BUT we stuck together and worked things out. The only thing he needs to do is talk to her and TELL Her that his lil issue isnt her fault. SHE needs to be open minded and talk it out with him, her fears her worries her problems. If they cant talk about it and sit and say "you cant eat me if i cant get you off" well that puts strain on the issue and will make it worse. May i sugest that SHE reads these posts and knows that its not her and that you need to work together and be one together.. I dont know what else to say or even if this makes sence. BUT stick together you will be happy one day!!
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Old 03-16-2002, 03:09 PM
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Ok, perhaps that was a little strong. Donīt think it is esasy to me saying that. Everybody has to do and learn of his own mistakes. Sure it is better trying to talk first.
I just say it in my way because that is my result of my mistakes.
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Old 03-16-2002, 05:06 PM
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Hi there Nic_Hex, Im with PlayfulTigress on the 69 idea, it is really good fun for both involved!

Your girlfriend is making things really hard on herself (and as a reult you), heck I wouldn't want to have to go down on my bloke under that pressure. Is she this hard on herself about other things in her life?

I guess there's no easy answer, it would be good if you could encourage her to play around with the rest of the experience rather than the end result. You know what it is like when there's something upsetting you, you keep thinking about it and focusing on it and soon you stop enjoying the other things that are good.

I hope it works out for you both.
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Old 03-16-2002, 06:03 PM
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2 points I don't think have been covered: oral sex is a learned skill from both sides, maybe this is a touchy subject, but has she ever made any other guy cum? It took years for my lady to bring me off with just her mouth... she wasn't bad at it, it felt great, but getting a guy off is takes a certain knowedge of the sweet spots, and what to do in response to his reactions... & of course, agonizing over it just compounds the problem!
Point 2, the cock piercing might be a problem, I don't have 1st hand knowedge, but any piercing would sever some nerve endings... I don't know what "Prince Albert" means, where does that indicate?
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Old 03-16-2002, 06:23 PM
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Scot the Prince Albert is ummm at one of the sweet spots, so that may be the problem.
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